It is difficult to believe you are no more. I am still in shock and still processing the news of your demise.
During the course of my work, I met your husband, Mr. Agyeman-Budu Esq., who informed me that his wife is also a judge. I was, therefore, delighted to meet you in one of the Judges’ meetings a couple of years later. We typically meet in conferences, both locally and internationally. We attended the IAWJ conference in the Ivory Coast, where we formed such a strong bond. In May 2024, the Ghana Chapter of IAWJ, under your leadership, hosted a regional conference, which was a great success. At the end of the conference, Abuja, Nigeria, was selected to host the next regional conference. In April 2025, we attended the IAWJ Biennial International Conference in the beautiful city of Cape Town, which boasts breathtaking views. At the end of the conference, Quebec, Canada, was selected to host the next IAWJ Biennial International Conference. The Ghana delegation was excited about the two upcoming conferences, and we looked forward to attending them.
Towards the end of the Cape Town conference, my husband and I saw you standing alone on Walter Sisulu Avenue, and we enquired whether you were okay. You responded affirmatively as we hurried to catch a boat to Robben Island. The next day, we met at the hotel lobby to take taxis to the airport to embark on our return journey to Accra. On arrival in Accra, I proceeded to my station in Kumasi.
Meanwhile, preparations for your mother’s funeral were underway. In the week of your mother’s funeral, I was sitting in Accra, so I did not attend your mother’s funeral in Kumasi. However, upon my return to Kumasi, I checked to see whether you were still there, and you confirmed that you were. I visited you on June 10, 2025, at your home in Fumesua to commiserate with you. You and your husband welcomed me warmly, and we discussed many topics. It was, therefore, a shock to have woken up on July 18, 2025, to the terrible news of your demise the night before.
If tears could bring you back, you would be here now. Your sudden and unexpected demise has prompted deep reflections on life: life is fragile and fleeting. I can only pray in agreement with the Psalmist in Psalm 90:12, that, ‘so teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.’_I realized that there are two days in a man’s life that we do not have control over: the date of birth and the date of death; they are in God’s hands. We, therefore, take solace in the belief that God allowed your call to glory. It is only in this belief that we can bid you farewell, cherish your legacy, and come to terms with your passing.
Your quiet disposition was phenomenal. You championed the cause of women and children. You offered your services through the roles you played in our esteemed association of women judges. You will be sorely missed. May God comfort your husband, children, and your entire family at this difficult time.
Amaku, yoo kama, mo worsi saminya.
Owoahene, Rita, Dayie.
Her Ladyship, Justice Mrs. Rita Agyeman-Budu, may your repose in the Lord continue.